Facing Cancer...

There has been so much talk this week about the positive spin that Elizabeth Edwards put on her final days after succumbing to the medical complications of her breast cancer.  But friends claim that "Elizabeth did not want people to say she lost her battle with cancer.  The battle was about living a good life, and that she won."

So what then about a person's sense of self, mental health, while dealing with this chronic illness?  What does cancer look like?  We perceive cancer as a solemn, painful, desperate disease that takes the best of our loved ones.  Yet these photos of Elizabeth show a different side of cancer.  The side that reflects personal choice to live in a positive environment.  The side that encourages independence for her future (her children and her life without her husband).  The side of inner strength so bright that reflects an outward shine. 

An article reflects the little known focus of many therapists who work with cancer patients.  Mental Health and Cancer: The Often Over-Looked Connections

The "power of positive thinking" becomes such a generalization that it loses its impact.  It is suppose to reflect a healthy outlook on the process of disease.  The stages of grief, anger, denial, sadness, etc.  Stabilizing the mental health during this time can actually provide the patient with the tools to improve their quality of life, and therefore their outcome in some cases.

What is interesting is that many patients are not even aware that therapy can even help with their treatment.  I think Elizabeth's story is a great example of what a healthy outlook on chronic illness looks like, and how it can ultimately benefit the individual and their family.  It did not extend her life, but it paved the way for a fuller life for her children, and a solid understanding of her peace that will bring comfort to all who mourn her.